Fatherhood is one of the most rewarding yet challenging roles a man can take on. Whether you’re preparing for your first child, raising a family, or looking for ways to be a more present and engaged dad, having the right resources can make all the difference. Books offer wisdom, guidance, and real-life experiences to help you navigate this journey with confidence.
We’ve put together a list of five essential books that every dad should read. These books cover everything from preparing for fatherhood to understanding the unique challenges boys face in today’s world. No matter where you are in your fatherhood journey, these reads will provide valuable insights and inspiration.
1. The Boy Crisis – Warren Farrell & John Gray
Boys today face a unique set of challenges, from struggling in school to mental health concerns. In The Boy Crisis, Warren Farrell and John Gray explore the societal and psychological issues impacting boys and how fathers play a critical role in addressing them. This book offers practical strategies to help dads raise confident, emotionally healthy sons.
2. Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters – Meg Meeker
If you’re a dad raising a daughter, this book is a must-read. Dr. Meg Meeker, a pediatrician and parenting expert, emphasizes the powerful influence fathers have on their daughters’ lives. Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters provides practical advice on how to nurture a strong, healthy, and confident young woman.
3. Becoming Dad – Leonard Pitts Jr.
Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Leonard Pitts Jr. takes a deep and personal dive into what it means to be a father, especially for Black men. Becoming Dad explores the challenges of fatherhood through personal stories, interviews, and research, offering an honest look at the struggles and triumphs of being a present and engaged dad.
4. Raising Boys by Design – Gregory L. Jantz
Understanding how boys are wired is key to helping them grow into strong, emotionally intelligent men. Raising Boys by Design combines science and faith-based principles to offer a unique approach to parenting boys. This book is perfect for dads looking to raise their sons with purpose, character, and resilience.
5. The Expectant Father – Armin A. Brott
For soon-to-be dads, The Expectant Father is a go-to guide. Armin A. Brott provides a month-by-month breakdown of what to expect during pregnancy and beyond. With insights into the emotional and practical aspects of preparing for a new baby, this book helps new fathers step into their role with confidence.
Final Thoughts
Being a great dad doesn’t come with a manual—but these books come pretty close. Whether you’re learning how to be a better father to your son, understanding the unique bond between dads and daughters, or preparing for fatherhood for the first time, these reads offer wisdom, guidance, and encouragement. Invest in yourself as a father. Pick up one (or all) of these books and take the next step in your fatherhood journey!